VsFlexGrid is an activex control, it 's loaded in design time in resource dialog but return error when create the CDialog

I upgrade my project from VC++ vs2008  to vs2013, I use VSFlexGrid7.ocx control, when I build the project  every think ok, and I can run my application, and show all dialog not contain this ocx, when I open dialog contain this ocx, the application exit and get an error, 

unhandled exception at 0x04514940 in MFCApplication1.exe: 0xC0000005: Access violation executing location 0x04514940.

this message appear on create dialog,

the application version when build on VC++ 2008 work ok, the error appear only in version build VC++ 2013,

the error only in control vsFlexGrid7.ocx, I try to use demo version from vsFlexGrid8.ocx It work ok but version vsFlexGrid7.ocx not work, 

how I can resolve this problem,  and why it work in VC++ 2008 and not working in VC++ 2013